Yesterday I had to report an incident that resulted in a call to social services. I knew going into this profession that these things happen but no words can describe how devastated I am. How do other teachers cope when this happens to your students?

I have never been in a situation where I had to report something about a student under 18, but I am aware of some poor situations my students are in, and also heard what seemed like horror stories of my students’ past lives when I taught adult learners.  I almost started crying once in front of a student when she broke down about how grateful she was for the gifts and food for her and her child that we as a staff had prepared for our students to help them make it through the Christmas holidays.

I try to see these situations as a motivational thing to get me through the crap I have to deal with.  I make a difference in the lives of others, and I need to keep going to be there for them.  What would have happened if you hadn’t made the call, or even hadn’t been around to make the call?  Would the student received help?  This student can persevere through these tough situations, and so can you.  Be ready to help the next one who needs you.

Additionally, don’t be afraid to ask for help.  Talk to another teacher or administrator who understands, so you can vent and get it out.

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