What would you think and how would you feel if you found out that one of your past students was unsuccessful/didn’t have a job or go to college when everyone (teachers and students alike) had thought they were going to be successful?

This definitely happens, but it doesn’t mean it is the end of their life.  Every individual needs to follow their own path and what works for them.  Just because they don’t attend a postsecondary institution following high school does not mean that they never will continue their education.  When there is potential there, it could be disappointing, but it is not my job or right to plan a pathway for a student.

What would you think and how would you feel if you found out that one of your past students was unsuccessful/didn’t have a job or go to college when everyone (teachers and students alike) had thought they were going to be successful?

This definitely happens, but it doesn’t mean it is the end of their life.  Every individual needs to follow their own path and what works for them.  Just because they don’t attend a postsecondary institution following high school does not mean that they never will continue their education.  When there is potential there, it could be disappointing, but it is not my job or right to plan a pathway for a student.

Is it weird for students to want to be friends with their teachers? Not like outside of school, but if you have a teacher that you connect with and can talk to like a friend it shouldn’t be that bad. I guess administrators could say otherwise though.

I don’t think it’s weird at all, as long as that teacher-student divide is still there.  I enjoy having personal conversations with students.  It creates more of a bond that can help the students feel more confident in their abilities in the classroom.

Is it weird for students to want to be friends with their teachers? Not like outside of school, but if you have a teacher that you connect with and can talk to like a friend it shouldn’t be that bad. I guess administrators could say otherwise though.

I don’t think it’s weird at all, as long as that teacher-student divide is still there.  I enjoy having personal conversations with students.  It creates more of a bond that can help the students feel more confident in their abilities in the classroom.

How do you deal with students that refuse to stop misbehaving? Like no matter how much you tell them to stop doing something they always go back to doing it when you aren’t looking their way.

Contact home immediately, and continue to contact parents/guardians when this type of behaviour occurs.  In some cases, there will not be any support from home, but it shows the student that home and school are connected, and that the behaviour will not be tolerated.  Get the admin team on your side by talking to them about your concerns.  Be firm with your rules and provide consequences.  

There is no magic answer, as some students will just continue to behave poorly, but these are some strategies you could use.  Good luck!

How do you deal with students that refuse to stop misbehaving? Like no matter how much you tell them to stop doing something they always go back to doing it when you aren’t looking their way.

Contact home immediately, and continue to contact parents/guardians when this type of behaviour occurs.  In some cases, there will not be any support from home, but it shows the student that home and school are connected, and that the behaviour will not be tolerated.  Get the admin team on your side by talking to them about your concerns.  Be firm with your rules and provide consequences.  

There is no magic answer, as some students will just continue to behave poorly, but these are some strategies you could use.  Good luck!